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A Letter to Men Navigating Betrayal Trauma


But beyond the deeply personal pain, there's an additional layer of cultural complication: the world often doesn’t hold much space for betrayed men.

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Security Within: How Our Sense of Self Influences Our Relationships

Exploring the link between inner security and relationship security through attachment theory and boundaries.

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Are We Compatible? Navigating Relationship Differences

Do you and your partner keep fighting about the same thing over and over again? Most likely you’re dealing with a perpetual problem.

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Navigating Identity & Addiction: Men’s, Women’s & LGBTQ+ Experiences

Addiction isn’t just about drugs or alcohol—it’s about pain, coping, and the ways we try to feel okay. Whether it's sex, shopping, or substances, addiction often starts as a search for relief—but can quickly lead to isolation, shame, and damage.

Gender identity, cultural expectations, and the silent stories we carry all shape how addiction takes hold—and how we heal.

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Love: The Drug of Choice? Process Addictions & Breaking Free

At its core, addiction is a desperate attempt to numb the pain of life, to fill the emptiness with something—anything—that can make us feel whole, if only for a moment.

The truth is, addiction doesn’t always come in the form of a bottle or a needle. Sometimes, it sneaks into our lives through behaviors, relationships, and the very things that are supposed to bring us joy.

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When Self-Soothing Turns to Self-Sabotaging

When old wounds shape the way we soothe ourselves, sexual behaviors can become a refuge—until they become a source of shame. Understanding how trauma shapes the nervous system opens the door to healing, allowing space for healthier regulation, meaningful support, and the possibility of true intimacy.

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Sobriety Versus Recovery: What is the difference?

Sobriety is about avoiding harmful coping strategies, while recovery is about healing so you don’t need them. In recovery, we don’t just avoid our medicators (ex: porn, sex, shopping, etc…). We heal our relationship with them. We discover the antidote to addiction: connection. We identify the underlying emotional and psychological needs we were attempting to meet, and we learn to get our needs met in new, healthy ways that feel good to us and to others.

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